You Say “Flawed”, He Says “Sexy”: What Men Really Think About Your Body | MyTinySecrets
It isn't about all men. But it's about the fundamentally good ones, which is to say, it's about 90-95% of us.
Shared partly to assure women who may be worrying too much, but also to remind feminist theorists that the male gaze is not as simple as you may think. My suspicion, after all these years of being friends with women, is that it's not fundamentally different than the female gaze.